I cannot believe you will soon be five.
You should be turning five that is.
It hurts to re-live that night five years ago, when you were born and all there is, was silence.
No beautiful wail escaped your body.
I shook in my own tears as I was expecting this moment, as if I knew it was to happen.
Throughout my pregnancy I was terrified something was wrong. It just didn’t feel right. Then it happened, first with excitement at your arrival then with shock as you were backwards folded in half turning blue on exit. The doctor and nurses worked so hard to get you to breathe as your dad held your hand begging you to try.
I was in my own shock; all was silent. I heard nothing, I only assumed you were dead. when the doctor told me they inserted a tube finally helping you to breathe but you needed to go immediately to the NICU, that I couldn’t see you. My mind could not wrap around what was happening or why. That was the hard beginning to your short beautiful life that has changed me forever. As a mother, as a human being who vows to live empathetically and compassionately helping others. I thank you for your time in my life my beautiful child.
I wish you a happy fifth birthday this Dec 30th wherever you are my sweet angel.
Love always and forever.